What should I do if I think a friend or relative has a drug problem?
It can be hard if someone you know is taking illegal drugs, or has a drug habit. Drug abuse can make people behave strangely, and do things that they would not normally do. But, chances are, you still want to help people close to you.
The important thing for them to remember is that they are not alone, and with the support of a friend loved ones, a drug user can get help.
It may be difficult for your friend or relative to admit they have a problem. They may be unable to even admit it to themselves. Facing a drug problem head on is difficult and takes time. Be ready for this, and try to be as patient and calm as you can.
It never hurts to find out about drugs. Knowledge can help you understand what people get out of drugs and what risks they face when doing them. All drugs have their own particular risks and ways of reducing them. For all drugs, the risks are reduced if people who choose to take them are relaxed and happy in themselves and are in a safe environment with people they can trust.
- Talk to your friend or relative who is taking drugs. Ask them if they have anything they would like to talk about or need help with. Make it clear you are there for them.
- Speak to other friends and family. This will lessen the burden of worry and mean that you have someone close to you to provide emotional support.
- Encourage your friend or relative to discuss their problems with a GP, who can refer them for specialist help.
- Call Narcotics Anonymous on 0845 3733366 to speak to someone who can help. Or, call NHS Direct on 0845 4647 for advice on what you can do and where you can go for support.
- If you want further support, see our FAQ section. This section also has an email contact form. You can also get further information from the Seeking Information page.
Ultimately, it is down to your friend or relative to get help - only they can make the decision that they want to do something about their problem.
All you can do is be there to support them. Make it clear that while you are worried about them and unhappy with their behaviour, you still care for them.
